One name for so many seasons: magnolia season, daffodil season, tulip season, and, now, dogwood season.

Each day, something is lost and some new beauty is born.


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I could never pick a favorite spring season (and I haven’t even mentioned the lilacs), but I do know what it is I love about the dogwoods: they light up the shadows.

Here, from where I sit at my desk, I can see a thick, dark line of trees along the fence. It might look foreboding except that there is a lacy pink-and-white dogwood dancing on the edge of the darkness.

It is so pretty I have wasted more than a bit of my writing time googling hammock.


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On Mother’s Day, I went for a drive. Alone. Because the irony of Mother’s Day is that I lose all patience for even the usual tasks of motherhood. Like wrangling four kids into carseats and listening to them bicker.

Just down the street from our house is a church like something from a child’s picture book. It is almost perfectly square and has a tall white steeple.

Of course, the child’s picture book never shows the tacky roadside notice board. This one said: We know life is hard. You are not alone.

I don’t think I’ve ever appreciated anything spelled out on one of those yellow plastic signs. Even the sentiments with which I agree bother me with their cheesy puns or too-cute rhymes.

But this one … Well, honesty is eloquent. Love sings.

I have nothing against John 3:16, but these may be the very best words for a churchyard sign.

I’m tempted to write them on my hand. Life is hard, but I am not alone. I think these words, and remembering that they apply to me and to everyone I meet, might help me respond to life with more gentleness. More compassion.


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Life can be hard. It can be hard even on the good days, the days we feel at home, the days in which thank you, thank you tumbles easily from our lips.

Our lives are edged with shadow.

I write my own thank yous out in this space. Thank you for my family. Thank you for my home. Thank you for bringing me out of the wilderness and into this good, green land.

But we all live with shadows, whether we are walking through a wilderness or not.

Here is where you might expect me to point to those dogwoods and say something about silver linings or unexpected blessings.

I refuse to do that.

I think we sometimes act as if truth isn’t worthwhile unless it can be summed up in one sentence or organized into five lessons or bound up with bullet points.

I am a writer, I love words, but I know that words – more often than not – fail us.

Sometimes the only true thing is to say as little as possible. Perhaps, to say only this:

“Look! Do you see? A dogwood tree like pale pink lace dancing at the edge of darkness.”


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